When & where
Location: Online
When: Fortnightly on Saturdays, 10:00am–11:30am
Facilitator: Elizabeth Spill
Cost: Free
How to join: Please get in touch to reserve your place
You don’t have to have everything worked out before you get in touch.
We’ll talk things through with you and help you take the next step forward.
No pressure to commit, just a clearer sense of what might help.
When someone you trusted has lied, cheated, or hidden part of their life from you, it can leave you questioning everything. You may find yourself replaying conversations, struggling to trust your instincts, or feeling like the person you were before the betrayal has disappeared.
Our Healing After Betrayal Support Group provides a safe, therapist-led online space for adults recovering from infidelity, emotional affairs and other significant breaches of trust. Whether you're trying to decide what happens next in your relationship or simply looking for people who genuinely understand, you're welcome to join us.
Relationship betrayal doesn't just hurt emotionally. It can affect your confidence, nervous system, sleep, concentration, and ability to trust yourself and others. Many people describe feeling isolated because friends and family struggle to understand the lasting impact betrayal can have.
You don't have to navigate that experience alone.
Each session is facilitated by experienced therapists and combines compassionate support with practical guidance. There is no pressure to speak, and many people simply listen during their first few meetings before contributing when they feel comfortable.
No. The group is open to adults recovering from infidelity, emotional affairs, and other significant breaches of trust within an intimate relationship. If the betrayal has left you struggling emotionally, you're welcome to attend.
No. Many people prefer to listen during their first few sessions. You are welcome to contribute as much or as little as feels comfortable.
Yes. Whether the betrayal is recent or happened many years ago, the emotional impact can remain significant. The group welcomes people at all stages of their healing journey.
Yes. The Healing After Betrayal Support Group is free to attend, although booking in advance is required so we can send you the joining details.
Yes. This group supports adults recovering from a wide range of relationship betrayals, including infidelity, emotional affairs, and deception. If your partner's behaviours involve compulsive sexual behaviours or problematic pornography use, our specialist Partners of Sex & Porn Addicts Support Group may be more appropriate.
Absolutely. Many people attend the group alongside individual counselling. The two can work well together, with the group providing connection and shared understanding while counselling offers more personalised support.
This group is suitable for adults aged 18+ who have experienced:
Location: Online
When: Fortnightly on Saturdays, 10:00am–11:30am
Facilitator: Elizabeth Spill
Cost: Free
How to join: Please get in touch to reserve your place
If your partner's betrayal is connected specifically to compulsive sexual behaviours or pornography addiction, you may also be interested in our Partners of Sex & Porn Addicts Support Group, which provides specialist support for women affected by sexual betrayal.
If you're looking for more personalised support, we also offer individual betrayal trauma counselling online and from our Buckhurst Hill or Henley-on-Thames therapy centres.
If you’re interested in joining the group, workshop or have any questions about whether it’s right for you, please get in touch or book a confidential call. We’re here to support you.